Removed my post, as I was re-reading it and found it not being helpful in resolving the problem. I think I got tripped over my own rakes. Darn, I did it again!
My apologies to everybody for putting more fuel into the flames. So I better go back to my cave and meditate a bit more -
Breathing in - "heirloom"
Breathing out - "tomatoes"
Repeat for 10 minutes minimum or for as long as you need. Feeling the difference?
Tatiana